Friday, February 27, 2015

Hands


Leathery as elephant hide. Dark as cacao. Chapped, tired, aching.


Not hands that can take a mental health day, that can rest when sickness or injury interferes.  Not hands that hold onto the certainty of a bank account, a retirement plan, health insurance, the promise of rest without the loss of income.

Dutiful as servants, they must respond daily to the command of an unrelenting master--hunger, the most basic necessity to survival.

What work have my hands been given to do?

I have been given the gift to heal. It has been my joy and pleasure to help people find balance in mind and body with my hands.  That has been my career.

But my vocation is to love, and in that regard I find that my hands quite often play the lazy servant.  They feel entitled to days off, massages, hand lotion, play.

They are greedy, little things, too! They don't believe it's worth the while if they are not getting paid to do something.

They are also amazingly vain.  They refuse to scrub toilets, for instance.  They are appalled by making beds, washing dishes, and folding clothes.  They are not impressed by the argument that even humble labor has value and meaning.

I find that volunteer work is a good remedy for my selfish hands.  I may not be able to reach across the world to ease the suffering of my starving brother or sister, but I can drive to the hospital and use my hands to provide comfort and reassurance to cancer patients.

I can walk across the street to hang out with my new L'Arche friends.

I can cook meals for my friend who just came home from the hospital.

Do I receive just compensation?

I have no idea if I am receiving just compensation.  It's a mystery to me.  I can make in an hour what some people make in a year.  On the other hand, I've been told I under-charge for my services.  And I know right now, I'm struggling.  My business is foundering and we are using our savings to survive.  So just or unjust, my compensation is not enough.

But just compensation isn't just about money.  It's about living a meaningful life. It's about finding satisfaction and joy in using my talents, about providing a service that reminds me I'm sharing in God's work of creation and redemption.

In that regard, I am wealthy beyond my wildest dreams.  Because there is not one thing I can do in a single day that doesn't have the possibility of yielding good for another--whether it's helping a client or thrilling my husband with a clean toilet.

As a consumer, how do I shop with awareness?

Well, here's my favorite helpful hint:  Kill Your Television.  And not just your TV.  Your commercial radio stations, and your Facebook page.  In other words, to the best of your ability, limit your exposure to advertising.  Frankly, that is one of the major ways I shop with awareness--by not shopping.

That, and we buy all our clothes at Good Will.  It's not exactly the same as shopping for clothes that aren't made in sweat shops, but at least I'm limiting my own personal demand for new products.

Finally, when I'm grocery shopping, I look for fair trade options.  There aren't many, but it's a joy to buy fair trade when I can.

How can I support the efforts of fair trade?

The most obvious way to support fair trade is to buy fair trade.  I just found a website--FairtradeAmerica.org--that provides a long list of fair trade products. It's easy enough to print out, and refreshingly broad in scope!  You can find fair trade products anywhere from Aldi's to Whole Foods.

It also has suggestions for other ways to get involved.  For instance, I can help campaign for better terms of trade or to raise awareness.  As individuals, it's very easy to use social media to post stories and information about fair trade.  But maybe you want to get your community involved in a fair trade project.  This website can provide the resources.

As for me, I think I'm going to be more conscientious about buying fair trade groceries when I can.  I may be limited to avocados, bananas, chocolate, wine and coffee.  But, hey, that sounds good to me!

Why not listen to this song as you reflect on your answers to these questions?


Monday, February 23, 2015

It only takes ONE voice to change the world ... will it be mine?

"So often in our world ...
"The least of our brothers and sisters
"Have become the faceless and voiceless ...
"People who are forced to walk the path alone ...
"Carrying with them ...
"The burdens of injustice.
"Knowing only a world of limited resources ...
"As limiting as the air she breathes ...
"Can anyone hear her plea?
"She can no longer be faceless and voiceless ...
"I can no longer be faceless and voiceless ...
"How am I called to share the journey with others?
"It only takes ONE voice to change the world ...
"Whose voice will it be... Will it be my voice?"

"Speak out for those who have no voice." Proverbs 31:8

Limited resources. I complain about waiting too long in traffic, about slow Internet, about a furnace that doesn't keep me toasty warm all the time. I complain about not having time to finish catching laundry up or about poor customer service. There's no end to ways we complain.

Yet some of our sisters must walk miles just to get water for the day. Some of our brothers live in huts with dirt floors. Many of our brethren don't have more than one or two sets of clothing to worry about washing. They have no motor cars, no traffic jams or customer service complaints. No one serves their needs. No one even knows they exist, except in the abstract.

Interesting that I got this first reflection, about voices. I am not really a complaining sort of person, most of the time, and much of my career has been spent giving voice to those who seek it. Yet now I sit during this first week of Lent and ponder:

What burdens do I carry?
Perhaps the burden of feeling entitled ... to good customer service, to smooth roads with few obstacles, to comfort and convenience. After all, I am paying for those things, yes? Yet this sense of feeling entitled is a burden.

Recent industry changes in my career field caused me a good deal of stress and worry recently (also burdens). I had to consider the possibility that I might be unemployed, looking for work, even work in a different field. Almost certainly work in a different field. It was unsettling. I came to realize how much of my own sense of identity is wrapped up in my job, my work.

Who would I be without it? Would anyone care what happened to me anymore if I wasn't writing columns, soliciting commentaries, helping to give a voice to others, yes, but also giving me my own sense of value in my community.

What within me is faceless and voiceless?
Like those who live in Third World countries? Faceless and voiceless? What value do I bring to my community, if not that function of helping others to find their own voices? I would have more time to volunteer if I didn't work. That's a good kind of facelessness. Just giving to others. I could crochet more scarves for kids. More baby blankets, more lap blankets, more hats and gloves. I could keep my house a lot cleaner if I had more time. If I was faceless and voiceless. If we could pay for it, that is.

What do I need to embrace in my life to help give voice to others?
I can't travel to Third World countries. That costs money. But if I could pare down my own spending, cut away the excess, empty my house to some degree and in the process, empty my own being to some degree, maybe it would be possible. Maybe.

Yet maybe, by doing my job, simply by doing what I get paid to do, I am in my own way giving voice to others. Maybe in time, there will be an opportunity to extend that same voice to others who truly live in poverty, in need.

How can I speak with ONE voice of justice on behalf of all people?
Well, sometimes a voice doesn't have to involve sound waves. Justice is a complex concept. Fairness, equity, at least an equal playing field.

But it hurts to look at pictures of people whose lives are so difficult compared to my own. But how to make my own sacrifices somehow relevant to them? There's something to think about.

Sometimes actions are louder than words. Not everyone can get up and travel around the world to help others, but we can make our sacrifices count -- not just during Lent, but all year long -- if we can direct our efforts toward giving to agencies and organizations that can help.

And we can do things in our own communities. I coordinate an effort to gather handmade scarves that are given to young children whose parents seek help at a local ministry. I support a very informal effort by some friends to collect food and clothing to distribute directly to the homeless in our own community. I support other similar efforts.

It's never enough, but it's a start. If everyone could make a couple of small sacrifices, give up just one luxury or vice and give the savings to a community charity, the collective effort could make a huge difference for those in need right here in our own communities.

That's a loud voice in support of justice.

Saturday, February 21, 2015

It's Lent again!

Lent 2015 has arrived. Rose and I will be writing about a prayer walk that was assembled by Catholic Relief Services: One on the Journey: A Solidarity Prayer Walk. It focuses on issues of social justice and asks us each to look for ways we can make very small sacrifices that might make life more bearable for others who live in unimaginable circumstances to most of us in developed countries.

I think we are using this information in a way that is entirely compatible with the intended use of the booklet.

It begins thus:
Live your life in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that, whether I come and see or am absent and hear about you, I will know that you are standing firm in ONE spirit, striving side by side with ONE mind for the faith of the gospel. *(Philippians 1:27) ... We have come to believe and know that you are the Holy ONE of God. *(John 6:69) ... There is ONE body and ONE spirit, just as you were called to the ONE hope of your calling *(Ephesians 4:4) ... Because there is ONE bread, we who are many are ONE body, for we all partake of the ONE bread *(I Corinthians 10:17) ... constantly praying with joy in every ONE of my prayers *(Philippians 1:4) ... Jesus said, "I am He, the ONE who is speaking to you" *(John 4:26) ... The voice of the ONE crying out in the wilderness: Prepare the way of the Lord, make the paths straight *(Matthew 3:3) ... As it is, there are many members, yet ONE body *(I Corinthians 12:20) ... So we, who are many, are ONE body in Christ and individually we are members ONE of another *(Romans 12:5) ... The Father and I are ONE *(John 10:30) ... The glory that you have given me I have given them, so they may be ONE, as we are all ONE *(John 17:22) ... ONE Lord

**This will be a virtual prayer walk. Last year, our liturgy director set up an actual prayer walk in our sanctuary, with displays and opportunities to stop and meditate, reflect and pray after each one. But this will be about reflection and prayer based on the images. We will offer you our thoughts on the Scripture, information and questions for each station, and we will cover two stations each week throughout Lent to complete the journey in time for Holy Week.

I will post on Tuesdays and Rose on Fridays. May you have a blessed and productive Lent 2015!